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Tuesday, 28th December 2010 9:18pm
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sailingisfine
WOW this blog is amazing! I'm female, straight, and here to rant.
The current image of a 'perfect woman' disgusts me. This popular figure in porn has no pubic hair to speak of, a teeny tiny neat vagina, and is as skinny as a rake. This is NOT an image of a woman, it's an image of a VERY young girl. I feel like I'm one of the few people who sees something so wrong with this. It's not only degrading to women everywhere, but to men as well - to say that this is what should be sexually gratifying to them is just plain offensive.

I realise this rant is from a very heterosexual point of view - but so is the porn industry.
Rant over, keep up the good work!

Preaching to the choir here, sailingisfine.

Porn is a complicated issue for me. While I see nothing wrong with performers enjoying their work and choosing to be in the industry, I do agree with you about the image it can project. Jessica Valenti has a very in-dept chapter about this predicament in her book, The Purity Myth. Check it out if you can. She can explain, defend, and ponder the situation much better than I.

And by the way, you’re amazing, my lovely lamb.

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Monday, 20th December 2010 9:01pm
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Please watch the documentary Very Young Girls. It shows how girls as young as 12 are forced into prostitution in New York City by aggressive and manipulative pimps. Thankfully there is the organization Girls Educational & Mentoring Services (GEMS) to help them get out the life and back on their feet. This documentary offers an inside look into that organization and follows some of the girls living in the shelter. You can stream it on Netflix.

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Monday, 20th December 2010 10:54am
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If I had cable, I would give this new Investigation Discovery reality series, Hookers: Saved on the Strip, a try. Each episode follows a different former sex worker trying to get out prostitution. Annie Lobert, the founder of Destiny House and a former stripper and sex worker too, serves as their mentor and shows how even “normal” girls can end up in working in the sex industry.
And her charity is called Hookers for Jesus.

If I had cable, I would give this new Investigation Discovery reality series, Hookers: Saved on the Strip, a try. Each episode follows a different former sex worker trying to get out prostitution. Annie Lobert, the founder of Destiny House and a former stripper and sex worker too, serves as their mentor and shows how even “normal” girls can end up in working in the sex industry.

And her charity is called Hookers for Jesus.

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Sunday, 19th December 2010 8:39pm
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I’ve written before in support of porn actors wearing condoms while working, and Derrick Burts’ recent HIV-positive diagnosis gives me even more reason to champion this cause. Think about it, employers are always trying to ensure the safety of their workers (at least they should be). If an injury occurs on the job, worker’s comp can help the employee get the medical attention they need and provide assistance while they recover.

After reading this article, it sounds like Derrick Burts is not so lucky. Following standard STD testing procedures for all sex workers, Burts went to the Adult Industry Medical Healthcare Foundation (AIM) in October where he was tested positive. Burts alleges AIM promised to set him up with a doctor and treatment but never followed through. Frustrated, he went to the AIDS Healthcare Foundation (a favorite non-profit of mine) and came forward to the public with his story.

Burts also tested positive for chlamydia, gonorrhea, and herpes early on in his career. Now the former gay and straight porn performer is speaking openly about his ordeal and the necessity for all pornography actors to wear condoms.

I hate that Derrick Burts is now HIV-positive, but I hope his experience can finally show the adult entertainment industry needs to change its way.

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Thursday, 9th December 2010 4:04pm
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I am so sick of all of this porn where a man pulls out and cums all over the girl's body. I want to see him finish inside of her. It's infinitely hotter.

Just sayin'.

Mainstream porn is a male-dominated form of media. Having a man come on a woman’s face is dominating and shows power. It’s not my bag either.

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Wednesday, 8th December 2010 2:00pm
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Friday, 3rd December 2010 9:35pm
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I'm a 18 year old stright female. I'm a virgin. I have masturbated a few times to porn, but it makes me feel kinda guilty. What do you think about this?

You’ve been brainwashed by contemporary American society that teaches women to be ashamed of their sexuality and think only guys masturbate and watch porn. You really have no reason to feel guilty masturbating considering 1) you’re not at risk of getting pregnant or contracting an STD/STI 2) it is/should be fun and pleasurable 3) porn is entertaining and 4) it’s part of developing a healthy sex life.

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Monday, 25th October 2010 6:27am
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"I think that the greater problem is homophobia, transphobia, and bi-phobia in the straight adult industry. This is really disheartening and ignorant. We are all working and living on the sexual fringe and need to be unified in education and not ostracizing groups within our industry."

Porn star Madison Young weighs in on the industry recent HIV scare. (via tracyclark-flory)

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Monday, 18th October 2010 10:56pm
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Tuesday, 28th September 2010 8:22pm
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Labia, labia, labia, labia

Take vaginal rejuvenation, the fastest-growing form of plastic surgery in the United States, and probably the best example of how women are expected to be girls—not just girls, but virginal girls. (After all, how much more obvious can the virginity fetish be when woman are obtaining a surgery that makes their vaginas younger?)

The surgery, touted using feminist rhetoric—”Women now have equal sexuality rights!” says one press release—claims to give women’s vaginas a “youthful aesthetic look.” Virgin vaginas, ready to order!

Rejuvenation, which costs anywhere from $2,000 to $5,000, can include a labia trim, liposuction on the outer lips, tightening the vaginal muscles, or a hymenoplasty (in which the doctor constructs a fake hymen). And although the risks are serious—infection, hemorrhaging, loss of sensitivity, scarring, nerve damage, painful intercourse, and disfigurement—women are lining up to get surgery. 

Why? Well, in addition to the “youthful aesthetic,” many women seem to believe that their genitals aren’t normal. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) says that most women don’t understand the size and shape of genitalia correctly, and that physicians performing vaginal surgeries may be leading women to have “misguided assumptions” about what is normal. The ACOG even went as far as to release a warning about the surgery, noting that it is “deceptive” for doctors to give patients the impression that these procedures are “accepted and routine surgical practices.”

But “normalcy” in this regard is hard to define, given our porned culture. The Vaginal Rejuvenation Institute, for example, says on its website that “many women bring us magazines such as Playboy” to show the doctor the aesthetic they’re looking for. “Normalcy” is no longer defined by women—it’s defined by porn magazines and movies that feature younger girls and uniform-looking vulvae.

         — Jessica Valenti, The Purity Myth (p. 73-74)

I felt like posting this excerpt since I believe many women are concerned about the size and shape of their labia. Once again, there is no “normal” when it comes to the appearance of the female genitalia.

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