Female, 19.
my boyfriend has never made me cum. ive faked for the whole 2 years weve been together. I can't cum from masturbation on my own either unless i watch porn, but vibrators work without porn.

telling him ive never cum is not an option, so please dont tell me to admit it. should i save up for a new vibe and introduce it to the bedroom? can i guide him towards new techniques without telling him what hes done so far never worked.

so worried :(

Yes, I think you should start incorporating toys during sex with your boyfriend. You’ve done your homework, and you know what makes you orgasm. You shouldn’t have to fake it with your boyfriend — you just have to show him. Considering how pleasurable vibrators can be, your boyfriend might be delighted to play with them too.

Don’t rule out watching porn during sex either. If your boyfriend cares about pleasing you, he’ll be more than delighted to try any which way he can (as long as he feel comfortable doing so).