In regards to the anon reader whose boyfriend doesn't like for her to use vibrators:

If she really wants to continue the relationship, then she should just not talk about the vibrator or incorporate them in her sex life. I would have a hard time getting past the way he thinks about girls with vibrators, but if she can, then that's great for her. One guy I was in a relationship with was threatened by the idea of me having just a little bullet, so I saved it for times when it just me, myself and I, and he was cool with that because half the time we were in a long-distance relationship.

If the vibrator is the issue, then that's what I personally recommend, having been in the same situation. If I were here, which I know I am not, I would be more concerned about why he feels negatively towards that area of female sexuality.

This is also good advice, jenniferwillcut. I agree with you; I couldn’t be with someone who prohibited me owning vibrators. Perhaps the disclosure and agreement not to discuss the sex toy with your partner is a good option. Let’s just hope her guy would be open to that compromise.