I am a Bisexual girl, and i have no problem turning strait girls gay by being their first, but for some reason i have a problem with devirginizing guys, i just don't want to have sex with a guy that s a virgin no matter how much i like him, whats wrong with me?

First thing first, riarandom. You are not “turning” any straight women gay. Sexuality isn’t a choice or a magic spell cast by others to reinforce the so-called gay agenda. You are merely helping them discover and come to terms with their sexuality, which they were born with. I’m sure you didn’t mean it that way either, but vernacular is very important considering some right-wing conservatives like to think people choose to be gay or bisexual and therefore, deviate from the heterosexual “norm.”

Now that I’ve gotten that off my chest, time for you question. By focusing on these men and constantly reminding yourself they are virgins, you’re putting way too much pressure on yourself. Think about it, if you had no clue he was a virgin, would you be able to perform comfortably? You probably would. Just think of these virgins are men you lust for, like any other man you happen to sleep with. They aren’t conquests, possessions, or anomalies. We were all virgins at one point in our lives, and someone has to do the deed and be our firsts. If you like them and want to sleep with them, why not go ahead?