Love your blog! I'm a female virgin, and I'm okay with it. I'm completely comfortable with the male form... but I struggle to be okay with guys touching or seeing me naked. It's not that I don't like being seen or touched, but I worry that little imperfections (a little body hair here, hips that are a bit too wide) will freak out my partner. What's even more scary is the unknown imperfections of my reproductive system! Do guys care that much about perfection? What can you do if that becomes a problem?

I’m a strong believer that if a guy is ready and about to have sex with you, he won’t give a rat’s ass or even notice minor imperfections. I’ve never met a guy who took notice of labia sizes, vulva “fatness”, dissimilarities, etc. Usually when he’s got you naked, he’s only thinking about sticking it in.

Yes, I know I’m making men sound like shallow gorillas right now, but as Mathieu has reiterated numerous times, men don’t care. If you do meet some jackass that is constantly making fun of any part of your body, thus causing you to feel self-conscious, dump his ass. He’s not worth the time or the admission ticket into your valuable invitation-only pussy.