Hi, I'm a sixteen year old girl, and I literally can't stop thinking about sex. I'm a virgin, and I have to mastrubate alot simply to control my urges. It's not that I'm ugly or anything, quite the opposite (but I don't mean to sound arrogant), I'm mostly confused as to why my libido is so much higher than all of my friends. I want to lose my cherry, but all of my "encounters" have been with strangers I've met at a public place (mostly dances) whom I never see again. What can I do, and why am I so damn horny all the time???

I’m all for free love, but I don’t recommend any 16-year-old give their v-card to strangers they meet at dances. That sounds like the opening of a bad Law and Order: SVU episode.

Keep masturbating, hun. There’s no rush in losing your virginity, and stop comparing your libido to your friends. Everyone matures at different rates, and developing a sex drive is part of maturing. Just enjoy yourself in the meantime. By the time you are ready to have sex with the right person, you’ll know exactly where to direct him/her because you’ll have already done your homework.