Hi, love the sex positive vibe! Quick question...I've been looking at vibrators for sometime now (preferably ones that cater for both clitoral and G spot stimulation) because I have trouble getting myself off and I think having one would be a fun way to experiment in my own time. However, my long-term boyfriend has a serious issue with it and has really kicked up a storm about me being interested in buying one. I've tried to reason with him but he sees it as me replacing him, and he's threatened. We also have slight issues with sex, so i believe he's insecure.. It's really pissing me off as I feel like it's not a big deal, and he claims only 'sluts' have vibrators.
What's the best vibrator, in your opinion, and what's your take on the boyfriend sitch?

At this very moment, I think the best vibrator is California Exotics Butterfly Kiss (I know, I’ve pimped it a lot recently). Other readers have told me they love it too. There is no motor in the shaft, so it’s completely pliable and great for g-spot stimulating. You can bend, twist, and turn that thing inside you any which way to float your boat.

Now, on to your boyfriend. I’ll just come out and say it; I don’t like him. I don’t like his claim that only sluts have vibrators and his assumption that a sex toy will replace him. He needs to lighten up. Sex toys are not substitutes for actual human partners. They are only additions to a person’s sex life. Just because you get a vibrator doesn’t mean you’ll have no interest in his dick. Like you said, he probably is a bit insecure and thinks you’ll compare his performance to your vibrator, which will not happen. Let him know that a vibrator will improve both of your sex lives. You’ll be learning new ways to get yourself off, and he’ll have the pleasure of pleasuring you with the new toy.

He might also end up wanting to use the damn thing on himself. Some men enjoy the vibrator stimulation on their penis and around their balls. Sex toys aren’t gender-specific. Just because a vibrator is pink and has a butterfly doesn’t mean a man can’t be turned on by its use. Try to get him to understand this notion and not feel threatened.

If he still acts like an ass, then I won’t be upset if you dump him. I’ll even let you crash on my couch if you need a place to stay, and the very next morning we’ll go sex toy shopping.