Time for a reminder of labia part labels. The labia majora is outer layer of the vulva made of skin. The labia minora is the inner part that lies within the labia majora. It often is a dark color and very “pliable.”
First and foremost, comparing yourself to porn stars is unfair. As Jessica Valenti says in The Purity Myth, “‘Normalcy’ is no longer defined by women—it’s defined by porn magazines and movies that feature younger girls and uniform-looking vulvae.” Porn actresses are hired for their appearance and performance abilities. They do not represent a standard of genital beauty all women need to live up to.
I don’t think men are turned off by larger labia majora either. I’ve received numerous testimonials assuring me they don’t care about the appearance of the labia minora, and the majora shouldn’t be a big deal either. Just reassure yourself you are gorgeous the way you are, and there is nothing abnormal about you.
