Let’s talk about the gag reflex and funky spunk
Anonymous: Ok, I am female and I have a problem with oral sex. I have a terrible gag reflex and my boyfriend finds oral to be one of the hottest things for me to do to him. but I have serious problems performing and I cannot stand the taste of cum. I would really like to know if you have any tips on how I could get better at oral and possibly work on my bad gag reflex?
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Well, kiddo, this can be a problem. Having been a recipient, I can tell you some of the things that I have observed to “work” at helping ease the gag reflex. First of all you can “cheat” the depth of your fellatio by grasping your boyfriend’s penis with one hand. This can be very stimulating with the right amount of grip and allow you to focus on head of his member with a little more detail. This cheat, however, can be less exciting. If you go hands free and decide you want to take more in, swallowing when you feel that you’re on the verge of gagging is apparently an effective method to keeping your composure—and continuing your play. If I’m not mistaken it’s the way that sword swallowers train for their act as well.
As for the issue about the taste of your boy’s semen, you either like it or you don’t. Also your boy’s biochemistry and diet has a lot to do with the taste as well e.g. salty, sweet, bitter etc. It has been suggested that by consuming pineapple you can generate sweeter tasting semen, which may be the case. Overall I wish you the best, if these tricks don’t work and you continue to hate it: don’t worry about it. There are other ways of having fun!
This is Christine adding my two cents. There is an easy solution to the semen part — condoms. Condoms will create a safe barrier between your taste buds and your man’s spunk. While the pleasure sensation might be a little different/less exciting for him, it should put you more at ease since you are agonizing over the moment when his little guys enter your mouth.
